Ever found yourself feeling guilty, shameful, and anxious because you may not have taken responsibility for your actions? Do you struggle with feelings of powerlessness like you have no control over the outcomes of your life?

It's not always easy to take responsibility for our actions, and sometimes we may even feel the lack of it. We may also feel like we're not living up to our potential or that we're letting others down.
There are many reasons why people struggle with taking responsibility for their actions. Sometimes, it's due to a lack of confidence or fear of failure. Other times, it may be due to past experiences of trauma, which can make it challenging to trust oneself or others. Additionally, our upbringing and the messages we received from our family and society can impact our ability to take responsibility.
Where Does It Come From?
Our ability to take responsibility is influenced by our childhood experiences, our relationships, and the culture in which we live. If we grew up in an environment where we were not encouraged to take responsibility for our actions, it can be challenging to do so later in life. Similarly, if we're surrounded by people who don't take responsibility, it can become normalized, making it harder to recognize the importance of responsibility.
How Do You Move Through This Emotion?
Moving through the emotions that come with responsibility can be challenging, but there are some strategies that can help you navigate this process:
Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness can help you stay present and aware of your thoughts and emotions. This can help you recognize when you are experiencing feelings of guilt, shame, or anxiety related to responsibility, and respond to them in a more compassionate and constructive way.
Develop a support network: Having people in your life who can offer encouragement and support can be incredibly helpful when you are working through feelings of responsibility. This could be a therapist, a friend, a family member, or a support group.
Take small steps: Breaking down your responsibilities into smaller, more manageable tasks can help you avoid feeling overwhelmed. Celebrate your progress along the way, and don't be too hard on yourself if you experience setbacks.
Practice self-compassion: Remember that it's okay to make mistakes, and that nobody is perfect. Be kind to yourself when you experience negative emotions related to responsibility and remind yourself that you are doing the best you can.
Identify and challenge negative self-talk: Sometimes, our inner dialogue can be our own worst enemy. When you notice negative self-talk related to responsibility, try to challenge these thoughts and replace them with more positive, constructive ones.
The key is to start small and build momentum. Set realistic goals for yourself and take small steps every day to achieve them. Celebrate your successes and be kind to yourself when you experience setbacks. Remember that progress is not always linear, and that it's okay to ask for help when you need it.
If you're struggling with taking responsibility for your actions and would like support in working through this emotion, I'm here to help. As a psychotherapist, I specialise in helping people explore the underlying causes of this struggle and develop strategies to help you move forward. Let’s work together to help you move through these emotions so you can experience lasting happiness!
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