Ever found yourself being overly critical or judgmental of your actions, thoughts, and feelings. Do you struggle with feelings of low self-worth or feelings of inadequacy?
Perhaps you have found yourself being quick to judge, criticize, or dismiss the feelings and experiences of those around you. This can sometimes create strained relationships and may lead to feelings of isolation or loneliness.

Cultivating compassion can be a powerful tool in promoting mental health, well-being, and a pathway to experiencing lasting happiness!
Where does it come from?
People often struggle with compassion because they may have learned to be critical and judgmental of themselves and others. Negative self-talk, past traumas, and societal messages can all contribute to a lack of compassion. Many people may also believe that being hard on themselves or others is the only way to motivate change. However, research has shown that self-compassion and compassion for others are essential components of resilience, personal growth, and healthy relationships.
Compassion often stems from empathy, the ability to understand and share another person's feelings. However, empathy can also be a double-edged sword. When we empathize with someone who is suffering, we may also experience their pain, which can be overwhelming. This can lead to compassion fatigue, burnout, and a desire to withdraw from others.
How do you move through this emotion?
If you're struggling with compassion, here are some ways to keep your energy in motion:
Practice self-compassion: This means treating yourself with the same kindness, concern, and support that you would offer to a good friend. This might involve acknowledging your own pain and suffering and recognizing that it's a normal part of the human experience.
Practice mindfulness: This involves paying attention to the present moment without judgment and with a curious and open attitude. Mindfulness can help you become more aware of your thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations and develop a sense of acceptance and non-judgment.
Seek support: A therapist can provide a safe and supportive space to explore your emotions and develop strategies for cultivating compassion for yourself and others. Therapy can help you gain a new perspective on your thoughts and behaviours, promote self-awareness and personal growth, and build healthy relationships.
Compassion is an essential ingredient for a happy and fulfilling life. By learning to cultivate compassion for yourself and others, you can promote your mental health and well-being and build stronger, more resilient relationships.
If you struggle with compassion and would like some support, I'm here to help. As a trained psychotherapist, I have helped many clients to find compassion for themselves and others to improve their overall well-being. Let’s work together to help you move through this emotion so you can experience lasting happiness!
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